Sunday, 15 February 2015
Sex Position Secrets Revealed: How to Conceive the Gender of Your Choice
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How to Conceive the Gender of Your Choice
How to Conceive the Gender of Your Choice – Can it Really Work or is it
BS?
If you are someone in this position,
then you may want to check out a book by Ashley Spencer called “Pick Pick The Gender Of Your Baby which claims to have helped 11,993 couples to choose the sex of their
baby using a natural method that Ashley discovered in her research and which
she claims has a 94.8% success rate.
The book was born after Ashley herself gave birth to her third boy and
found herself mired in depression because he wasn’t a girl. At this stage,
desperation became the mother of invention and Ashley knew that she had to find
a way to conceive a baby girl no matter what the cost in terms of money or
effort. She started to dig deeper than she ever had before into pregnancy
research, seeing which showed promise, what worked and what didn’t.
The journey came to fruition with her husband stumbling upon a “lost
seminar” that held the secrets that she had always been searching for, but
until now hadn’t found. What she found when she watched this seminar with her
husband amazed her!
There WAS in fact a method that had a
stunning 94.8% success rate when it came to gender selection! It had been hidden in plain sight all the time, and Ashley knew that
she had to test it out and complete her family with the girl that she had
always so desired.
She set to work on becoming an expert in what was needed to make the
method succeed, and had the full backing of her husband who also had similar
goals. The first thing she did then was to apply the method she had discovered
in her own life.
In truth it wasn’t all that difficult. She was amazed that the changes
she needed to make in order to conceive the baby girl that she had always
dreamed about were actually quite small and subtle, and she wondered if it
could really be this easy. Had the secrets been staring her in the face all the
time and she not seen them?
Well, 9 months later, Ashley finally
gave birth to the baby girl she had always dreamed about and is living proof
thatgender selection methods can work. Her family was complete and she decided to share her
new knowledge in a book to help other desperate families achieve their dreams.
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Prince or Princess? Choosing Your Baby’s Gender Before Conception: Worth
the Investment?
Alicia Pennington is the author
of ““Prince or Princess? Choosing your baby’s gender before conception which is a guide to how you can influence the sex of your baby
before conception.
“Choose” is honestly perhaps too strong a word for the method that
Alicia recommends, because the fact is that this is not a “Magic Stork”
solution, and so there is still the possibility that your baby could be of a
gender that you wouldn’t have chosen. But the method does swing the odds
dramatically in your favor because it is based on firm science as to how
conception really works.
Alicia Pennington herself admits that it dramatically increases your
chances of having a baby of the sex that you want, and that is closer to the
mark. In fact, she claims that 94% of the couples who have followed her method
have ended up by having the sex of child that they wanted.
This program could be of benefit to
you, for example if you already have a child of one sex and want a second child
of a different sex. Or, if perhaps you have had several children of one sex,
like Victoria Beckham, for example who had three sons before finally having a girl, but would really love a child of a different sex to complete your
family.
If you are in this position, then undoubtedly the small investment in
Alicia’s book is something to consider.
Alicia is medically trained in this field, having been a midwife for a
period of 12 years, and so this is a subject that she knows directly from the
trenches. She talks about how during that time she met many families who were
in the position of desperately wanting a child of a particular sex, and how
this inspired her to start out on a journey to discover methods whereby
women/couples would be able to choose the sex of their babies before they
conceived.
When Alicia herself was about to start a family, she dived into the
process of researching if there were methods that she could use to choose the
sex of her very own child. In effect she became the guinea pig for her own
method!
She decided along with her husband to have a baby girl and sure enough,
9 months later she was blessed with the arrival of her daughter Marie.
The real question that you need to answer before investing in this
method is how much you really want a child of a particular sex. If the answer
is “a lot”, then this is certainly worth checking out
Can Dietary Choices Impact the Gender of My Child?
The foods that you eat can affect the future gender of your child for
many different reasons. The main one is that your body’s PH needs to be at a
certain level for each type of gender. The sperm that carry the chromosomes
that decide baby’s gender require a different PH for a successful trip to the
eggs for fertilization.
Sperm responsible for conceiving a boy carry the Y chromosome. They are
small, agile and must reach their destination quickly before they expire. They
need an alkaline environment in order to help reach the egg first.
The sperm responsible for conceiving a girl carry the X chromosome. They
are much larger, more durable and though they may take longer to reach an egg,
they have a greater chance of living long enough to do so. They prosper in an
acidic environment.
Choosing the right foods to balance your PH levels appropriately may
indeed have an impact on the gender of your child.
Eating for a Boy
If you want to have a boy, foods that contain potassium and sodium are
very important. They are non-acidic by nature and will boost your body’s
alkalinity. The recommended foods include bananas, sweet corn, red meats, and
even sausages. It is important however that you eat these foods in moderation
and include a healthy and balanced diet for proper health. Having too much
sodium is never recommended. You should still aim to stay within proper dietary
guidelines at all times.
Eating for a Girl
In order to have a girl, you should focus on foods that will boost
acidity in your body. They include foods that are rich in magnesium and
calcium. Broccoli is the perfect example of a food that contains high levels of
both. Other foods you can eat include grapefruit, apples, dairy products, some
fish (farm raised to avoid high levels of mercury) and leafy green vegetables.
What to Remember
Everything in moderation is key as well as proper nutrition. While there
are other methods of selecting your child’s gender naturally, combining them
with a proper diet will increase your chances for success. Ask your doctor if
you have any questions about the foods that you should be eating
Tips for Gender Selection
The Fun Tips for Gender Selection- Hi!
How it Works
This works for a variety of different reasons, but is based in the fact
that the two kinds of chromosomes that are responsible for gender selection are
carried by sperm that are very different. The Y chromosome is responsible for
conceiving a boy. The sperm that carry this chromosome are small, quick and
able to cover the distance to the egg very rapidly. The downside is they don’t
live very long and if they have to swim too far, they won’t be able to complete
their journey successfully.
The X chromosome sperm are responsible for conceiving a girl. These
sperm are much larger, and move quite a bit slower. However, they live a lot
longer and have more endurance when it comes to reaching the egg.
How to Have a Boy- Ride ‘Em Cowgirl
Because the Y sperm need a little extra help in reaching their
destination before they expire, positions that allow deep penetration are
essential. The goal is to have the man orgasm as closely as possible to the
neck of the cervix. This reduces the amount of time that the sperm will need to
spend getting to the egg and closes the distance.
Positions that allow for this to occur include woman dominant, or woman
on top as well as its other variation, commonly called Reverse Cowgirl. (Most
men are a big fan of this one yes?) In these positions, the woman is on top of
the man and can control how deeply he penetrates her. At the moment of orgasm,
the woman should allow the man inside as deeply as possible.
There are a few other positions as well, but the important thing to
remember is that the deeper the penetration at the moment of orgasm, the more
likely you are to have a boy.
How to Have a Girl- Missionary for a
Baby Girl?
If you would prefer to have a girl, the proper positions involve much
shallower penetration. The X sperm are much more durable and need a little more
time to reach the egg, allowing the Y sperm to die off before they get there.
This means that the man should orgasm as far away from the neck of the cervix
as possible.
Positions for shallow penetration include missionary, spooning and the
lotus position where the couple wraps their legs around each other while
sitting. The positions do not allow for deep penetration and the desired result
of increasing the likelihood of having a girl can be achieved.
Don’t Forget- Ladies First for a Boy
There is one more thing to remember when choosing a position for
choosing gender. If you do want to have a boy, it is important that the woman
orgasm before the man. This changes the PH near the cervix, making it more
hospitable to the Y sperm. The opposite is true if you want to have a girl.
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Wednesday, 11 February 2015
Sex Position Secrets Revealed: How to Conceive the Gender of Your Choice
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Sunday, 8 February 2015
What Is a Sexual Fetish?
Health & Sex
What Is a Sexual Fetish?
While you might like the sight of
your partner in a pair of high heels during sex, that doesn’t necessarily mean
you have a shoe fetish.
A fetish is sexual excitement in
response to an object or body part that’s not typically sexual, such as shoes
or feet. They’re more common in men.
Many people with fetishes must have
the object of their attraction at hand or be fantasizing about it, alone or
with a partner, in order to become sexually aroused, get an erection, and have
an orgasm.
A person with a fetish might
masturbate while they hold, smell, rub, or taste the object. Or they might ask
their partner to wear it or use it during sex.
People can “fetishize” almost
anything.
There are many web sites about lots
of fetish interests,. “Anything you could imagine.”
According to a study, the most common
fetishes involve body parts, such as feet, or body features, such as obesity, piercings, or tattoos. The feet are
by far the most common. Body fluid, body size, and hair fetishes aren’t far
behind.
After body parts comes things you
wear. The same study put clothes worn on the hips and legs, such as stockings
and skirts, at the top of the list. Footwear, then underwear, ranked closely
behind.
Fetishes that involve the feel of a
certain material, often leather or rubber, are also common. Some people like
dressing themselves and their partner in furry animal costumes.
Sexual behavior experts don't agree
on the causes. Some people can trace their attraction back to early childhood,
before they were aware of their sexuality.
A fetish can also come from seeing
inappropriate sexual behavior during childhood or from sexual abuse, says
Kenneth Rosenberg, MD. He's a psychiatry professor at Weill Cornell Medical
College.
A sexual fetish is
not a disorder by definition, but it can reach that level if it causes intense,
lasting distress.
What Is a Sexual Fetish?
Are Fetishes OK?
“Whether somebody
is doing this by themselves or with a partner, if they’re happy with it, then
it’s not an issue," Krueger says, as long as it causes pleasure and no one
is being forced to take part.
“My patients come
to me because they feel it’s a problem,” Rosenberg says. “Their behaviors are
not interesting, fun, or even sexy. They are not simply experimenting with
novel means of sexual expression. They are desperate, compulsive, and sometimes
so distressed by their behaviors that suicide is
a consideration.”
When it's a
disorder, it feels out of control. Someone might disappear from work or home to
practice their fetish in secret. This fascination could also keep them from
doing their job.
“A physician could
have a foot fetish, for example, and spend a large amount of time and attention
on his patients’ feet,” Krueger says.
People with these
disorders might also steal to get the object of their desire. Often, they can’t
have meaningful sexual
relationships with other people. They might prefer to have time
alone with their object, even when they're in a relationship with another
person.
“If your partner
said, ‘Wear a pair of sexy shoes tonight,' you’d probably say, ‘Why not?’ But
if your partner said, ‘You can sleep in the other room, just leave me your
shoes,’ that would be a problem,” Rosenberg says.
Standard treatment
includes medication and talk therapy with
apsychiatrist or
counselor.
Still, some
fetishes can be harmless. A recent study on “adult baby/diaper lovers” found
that among nearly 1,800 men and 140 women who report having this fetish, most
said they were "comfortable" with their fetish and that it wasn't a
problem.
The same can be
said of people who enjoy bondage, discipline or domination, sadism, and
masochism, commonly known as “BDSM,” Rosenberg says. As long as everyone
agrees, then chances are “no one’s getting hurt in a way that is extreme or
permanent, and everyone’s happy with what’s happening.”
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Sunday, 13 July 2014
10 Surprising Health Benefits of Sex
10 Surprising Health
Benefits of Sex
The perks of sex extend well beyond the bedroom.
Sex not only feels good. It can also be good for you. Here’s
what a healthy sex life can do for you.
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1. Helps Keep Your Immune System Humming
“Sexually active people take fewer sick days,”.
People who have sex have higher levels of what defends your
body against germs, viruses, and other intruders. Researchers at Wilkes
University in Pennsylvania found that college students who had sex once or
twice a week had higher levels of the a certain antibody compared to students
who had sex less often.
You should still do all the other things that make your
immune system happy, such as:
Eat right.
Stay active.
Get enough sleep.
Keep up with your vaccinations.
Use a condom if you don’t know both of your STD statuses.
2. Boosts Your Libido
Longing for a more lively sex life? “Having sex will make
sex better and will improve your libido,”..
For women, having sex ups vaginal lubrication, blood flow,
and elasticity, all of which make sex feel better and help you crave more of
it.
3. Improves Women's Bladder Control
A strong pelvic floor is important for avoiding
incontinence, something that will affect about 30% of women at some point in
their lives.
Good sex is like a workout for your pelvic floor muscles.
When you have an orgasm, it causes contractions in those muscles, which strengthens
them.
4. Lowers Your Blood Pressure
Research suggests a link between sex and lower blood
pressure,
“There have been many studies,” he says. “One landmark study
found that sexual intercourse specifically (not masturbation) lowered systolic
blood pressure.” That's the first number on your blood pressure test.
5. Counts as Exercise
“Sex is a really great form of exercise,”. It won’t replace
the treadmill, but it counts for something.
Sex uses about five calories per minute, four more calories
than watching TV. It gives you a one-two punch: It bumps up your heart rate and
uses various muscles.
So get busy! You may even want to clear your schedule to
make time for it on a regular basis.
“Like with exercise, consistency helps maximize the benefits,”
6. Lowers Heart Attack Risk
A good sex life is good for your heart. Besides being a
great way to raise your heart rate, sex helps keep your estrogen and
testosterone levels in balance.
“When either one of those is low you begin to get lots of
problems, like osteoporosis and even heart disease,”.
Having sex more often may help. During one study, men who
had sex at least twice a week were half as likely to die of heart disease as
men who had sex rarely.
7. Lessens Pain
Before you reach for an aspirin, try for an orgasm.
“Orgasm can block pain,”. It releases a hormone that helps
raise your pain threshold.Stimulation without orgasm can also do the trick.
“We’ve found that vaginal stimulation can block chronic back and leg pain, and
many women have told us that genital self-stimulation can reduce menstrual
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8. May Make Prostate Cancer Less Likely
Going for the gusto may help ward off prostate cancer.
Men who ejaculated frequently (at least 21 times a month)
were less likely to get prostate cancer during one study, which was published
in the Journal of the American Medical Association.
You don’t need a partner to reap this benefit: Sexual
intercourse, nocturnal emission, and masturbation were all part of the
equation.
It's not clear that sex was the only reason that mattered in
that study. Lots of factors affect cancer risk. But more sex won’t hurt.
9. Improves Sleep
You may nod off more quickly after sex, and for good reason.“After
orgasm, the hormone prolactin is released, which is responsible for the
feelings of relaxation and sleepiness" after sex.
10. Eases Stress
Being close to your partner can soothe stress and anxiety.
Touching and hugging can release your body's natural
“feel-good hormone.” Sexual arousal releases a brain chemical that revs up your
brain’s pleasure and reward system.
Sex and intimacy can boost your self-esteem and happiness,
too. It’s not only a prescription for a healthy life, but a happy one.
Thursday, 27 March 2014
7 Solutions That Can Save a Relationship
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7 Solutions That Can Save a
Relationship
Rocky road?
Get your love life back on track.
It's the
rare couple that doesn't run into a few bumps in the road. If you recognize
ahead of time, though, what those relationship problems might be, you'll have a
much better chance of getting past them.
Even though
every relationship has its ups and downs, successful couples have learned how
to manage the bumps and keep their love life going, says marriage and family
therapist Mitch Temple, author of The Marriage Turnaround. They hang in there,
tackle problems, and learn how to work through the complex issues of everyday
life. Many do this by reading self-help books and articles, attending seminars,
going to counseling, observing other successful couples, or simply using trial
and error.
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Relationship Problem: Communication
All
relationship problems stem from poor communication, according to Elaine Fantle
Shimberg, author of Blending Families. "You can't communicate while you're
checking your BlackBerry, watching TV, or flipping through the sports
section," she says.
Make an
actual appointment with each other, Shimberg says. If you live together, put
the cell phones on vibrate, put the kids to bed, and let voicemail pick up your
calls.
If you can't
"communicate" without raising your voices, go to a public spot like
the library, park, or restaurant where you'd be embarrassed if anyone saw you
screaming.
Set up some rules.
Try not to interrupt until your partner is through speaking, or ban phrases
such as "You always ..." or "You never ...."
Use body
language to show you're listening. Don’t doodle, look at your watch, or pick at
your nails. Nod so the other person knows you're getting the message, and
rephrase if you need to. For instance, say, "What I hear you saying is
that you feel as though you have more chores at home, even though we're both
working." If you're right, the other can confirm. If what the other person
really meant was, "Hey, you're a slob and you create more work for me by
having to pick up after you," he or she can say so, but in a nicer way.
Relationship Problem: Sex
Even
partners who love each other can be a mismatch, sexually. Mary Jo Fay, author
of Please Dear, Not Tonight, says a lack of sexual self-awareness and education
worsens these problems. But having sex is one of the last things you should
give up, Fay says. "Sex," she says, "brings us closer together,
releases hormones that help our bodies both physically and mentally, and keeps
the chemistry of a healthy couple healthy."
Plan, plan,
plan. Fay suggests making an appointment,
but not necessarily at night when everyone is tired. Maybe during the
baby's Saturday afternoon nap or a "before-work quickie." Ask friends
or family to take the kids every other Friday night for a sleepover. "When
sex is on the calendar, it increases your anticipation," Fay says.
Changing things up a bit can make sex more fun, too, she says. Why not have sex
in the kitchen? Or by the fire? Or standing up in the hallway?
Learn what
truly turns you and your partner on by each of you coming up with a personal
"Sexy List," suggests California psychotherapist Allison Cohen. Swap
the lists and use them to create more scenarios that turn you both on.
If your
sexual relationship problems can't be resolved on your own, Fay recommends
consulting a qualified sex therapist to help you both address and resolve your
issues
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Relationship Problem:
Money
Money problems can start even before the wedding vows are
exchanged. They can stem, for example, from the expenses of courtship or from
the high cost of a wedding. The National Foundation for Credit Counseling
(NFCC) recommends that couples who have money woes take a deep breath and have
a serious conversation about finances.
Be honest about your current financial situation. If things
have gone south, continuing the same lifestyle is unrealistic.
Don't approach the subject in the heat of battle. Instead,
set aside a time that is convenient and non-threatening for both of you.
Acknowledge that one partner may be a saver and one a
spender, understand there are benefits to both, and agree to learn from each
other's tendencies.
Don't hide income or debt. Bring financial documents,
including a recent credit report, pay stubs, bank statements, insurance
policies, debts, and investments to the table.
Don't blame.
Construct a joint budget that includes savings.
Decide which person will be responsible for paying the
monthly bills.
Allow each person to have independence by setting aside
money to be spent at his or her discretion.
Decide upon short-term and long-term goals. It's OK to have
individual goals, but you should have family goals, too.
Talk about caring for your parents as they age and how to
appropriately plan for their financial needs if needed.
Relationship Problem:
Struggles Over Home Chores
Most partners work outside the home and often at more than
one job. So it's important to fairly divide the labor at home, says Paulette
Kouffman-Sherman, author of Dating From the Inside Out.
Be organized and clear about your respective jobs in the
home, Kouffman-Sherman says. "Write all the jobs down and agree on who
does what." Be fair so no resentment builds.
Be open to other solutions, she says. If you both hate
housework, maybe you can spring for a cleaning service. If one of you likes
housework, the other partner can do the laundry and the yard. You can be creative
and take preferences into account -- as long as it feels fair to both of you.
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Relationship Problem:
Not Making Your Relationship a Priority
If you want to keep your love life going, making your
relationship a focal point should not end when you say "I do."
"Relationships lose their luster. So make yours a priority," says
Karen Sherman, author of Marriage Magic! Find It, Keep It, and Make It Last.
Do the things you used to do when you were first dating:
Show appreciation, compliment each other, contact each other through the day,
and show interest in each other.
Plan date nights. Schedule time together on the calendar
just as you would any other important event in your life.
Respect one another. Say "thank you," and "I
appreciate..." It lets your partner know that they matter.
Occasional conflict is a part of life, according to New
York-based psychologist Susan Silverman. But if you and your partner feel like
you're starring in your own nightmare version of the movie Groundhog Day --
i.e. the same lousy situations keep repeating day after day -- it's time to
break free of this toxic routine. When you make the effort, you can lessen the
anger and take a calm look at underlying issues.
You and your partner can learn to argue in a more civil,
helpful manner, Silverman says. Make these strategies part of who you are in
this relationship.
Realize you are not a victim. It is your choice whether you
react and how you react.
Be honest with yourself. When you're in the midst of an
argument, are your comments geared toward resolving the conflict, or are you
looking for payback? If your comments are blaming and hurtful, it's best to
take a deep breath and change your strategy.
Change it up. If you continue to respond in the way that's
brought you pain and unhappiness in the past, you can't expect a different
result this time. Just one little shift can make a big difference. If you
usually jump right in to defend yourself before your partner is finished
speaking, hold off for a few moments. You'll be surprised at how such a small
shift in tempo can change the whole tone of an argument.
Give a little; get a lot. Apologize when you're wrong. Sure
it's tough, but just try it and watch something wonderful happen.
"You can't control anyone else's behavior,"
Silverman says. "The only one in your charge is you."
Relationship Problem:
Trust
Trust is a key part of a relationship. Do you see certain
things that cause you not to trust your partner? Or do you have unresolved
issues that prevent you from trusting others?
You and your partner can develop trust in each other by
following these tips, Fay says.
Be consistent.
Be on time.
Do what you say you will do.
Don't lie -- not even little white lies to your partner or
to others.
Be fair, even in an argument.
Be sensitive to the other's feelings. You can still disagree,
but don't discount how your partner is feeling.
Call when you say you will.
Call to say you'll be home late.
Carry your fair share of the workload.
Don't overreact when things go wrong.
Never say things you can't take back.
Don't dig up old wounds.
Respect your partner's boundaries.
Don’t be jealous.
Be a good listener.
Even though there are always going to be problems in a
relationship, Sherman says you both can do things to minimize marriage
problems, if not avoid them altogether.
First, be realistic. Thinking your mate will meet all your
needs -- and will be able to figure them out without your asking -- is a
Hollywood fantasy. "Ask for what you need directly," she says
Next, use humor -- learn to let things go and enjoy one
another more.
Finally, be willing to work on your relationship and to
truly look at what needs to be done. Don't think that things would be better
with someone else. Unless you address problems, the same lack of skills that
get in the way now will still be there and still cause problems no matter what
relationship you're in
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